It’s OK Not to Have A Boyfriend

Spend this time thanking God for always being there for you. Ask Him to help you find comfort in knowing that you’re never alone. Ask Him to help you enjoy being single and living your life for Him.

Psalm 37:4-5  “Delight yourself in the LORD; and He will give you the desires of your heart.  Commit your way to the LORD, trust also in Him, and He will do it.”

God’s Word is so awesome and clear about different situations in our lives. Today, His Word says if we focus on Him, first and most, He will give us the desires of our heart. Not only will He give us what we desire, He will give us the right desires. Don’t go looking for love just because you’re lonely. IT’S OK NOT TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. Enjoy this time of singleness to apply yourself to singleness of purpose: knowing God better and becoming the wonderful, independent, Godly woman He wants you to be. When it’s your time to be with someone, God will make that happen. He’ll make it happen by giving you the desire for the right person, at the right time, when you’re ready and your guy is ready. He is also working in the life of that guy, making him into what he should be for you.

If we would just leave it in His hands, God really would write some beautiful love stories. He knows the characters and which will go well together and which should remain apart. He creates the plot, the storylines, the setting, and the rising and falling action--He has all that under control. So let Him write your story. If you’re in middle school or high school and you don’t have a beloved, don’t worry one bit about that. Make some guy friends. Hang out and have fun together while you are learning what makes guys tick, and you can be free to learn what you like and don’t like in a guy so you will know what to look for.

Gasp! Life can be good without a boyfriend? YES! YES IT CAN! Don’t start something because you’re lonely, talk to God about it. Let Him know you’re lonely and ask Him for help and comfort. Focus on Him! He will do it!

What is God saying to me today?

How does this change my life and what are my next steps?

Start writing your feelings out in a journal. When you’re lonely, pray about it, write about it, feel it, but don’t let it overcome you.